活着
就是最实在的事…

能拥有明天是很美好的事…

生命最後一個月的花嫁

super interesting movie…
somehow i think this movie is quite different from Tarantino’s previous movies…
感觉上这次所运用的是比较冷静、沉着的镜头画面…
看得超爽的…

That Glourious Basterd ~ In defense of Quentin Tarantino

办公室里的人际关系真的就假得理所当然吗?

这是我最近的一个新发现/领悟?

QuizBox

Your view on yourself:
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren’t interested in wasting time with people you don’t really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education:
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:
You’re a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you’ll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don’t succeed. Don’t give up when you haven’t yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It’s time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

theme song for jap drama “buzzer beat”

- Goal oriented and strong minded,
- will start a task and continue it until completed, and completed well.
- They are the individualists of the blood group categories and find their own way in life.

第三度回到尼泊尔,还是有机会看到一些以前没看过的东西…

Teej Festival
Teej is the fasting festival of women in Nepal. It falls in the month of August or early September. Married women observe Teej fast to honor Lord Shiva and for long and healthy life of their husband. Unmarried girls also observe fast on this day for a good husband. Teej celebrations lasts for three pious days. Traditional dances and songs form an important feature of Teej celebrations. Red color is considered auspicious for women observing Teej fast and so most of them dress up in red or bridal clothes.

Teej Celebrations
Teej is an annual festival of Nepali women. The festival is celebrated with utmost dedication and love by the women in Nepal. Preparations for the festival begin well in advance. Fabric stores, sarees and suit outlets are stocked with the bridal red color fabric. Women spend most of the time shopping when Teej is near.

Teej festival celebrations are carried further with sumptuous feasts and traditional performances. On this day, women dress up beautifully. They clad themselves in red colored apparels, wear glass bangles, heavy ornaments and apply henna. Teej gives women an opportunity to dress like the newly wed. They worship the epitome of divine marriage – Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati, for longevity and prosperity for their husband and family.

Three Days of Teej
Teej is a three-day-long festival in Nepal and each day has its own significance.
1. First day is called ‘Dar Khane Din’, the day to make merry.
2. Second day is a ‘fasting day’.
3. The third day is called ‘Rishi Panchami’ in Nepal which is a day to
perform Teej Puja.

Dar Khane Din
The first day of Teej in Nepal is called the ‘Dar Khane Din’. On this day, the womenfolk dressed in the finest clothed gather at one place and perform traditional dance and sing devotional songs. A special food called ‘dar’ is eaten. Celebrations continue till midnight after which the 24-hour-long fast begins.

Fasting Day
The second or the fasting day of the Teej festival is dedicated to pujas and prayers. The holy Pashupatinath temple is thronged by women in red sarees to offer prayers to Lord Shiva. Women gather in the temple and circumambulate the Lingam (phallic symbol of the Lord) adorned with flowers, sweets and coins. The beautifully decorated idols of Shiva and Parvati are offered fruits and flowers to seek blessings of the divine spirits. Lighting of an oil lamp is very important part of the puja ceremony. It is said that the oil lamp should be kept lit all night to avoid bad omen.

Rishi Panchami
The third day of the Teej Festival is called Rishi Panchami. On this day, the seven sages of the Hindu pantheon are worshiped by women in a belief that it will cleanse all sins of the previous year. Womenfolk take a holy bath with red mud found on the roots of the sacred Datiwan bush, along with its leaves. After three hours of rigorous cleansing, they come out purified and absolved from all sins. After this they sit in a semicircle while a priest sitting in the middle chants devotional prayers.

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and a SUPER LONG JAM…超级大堵车!!!
from nagarkot to chitwan national park…set off at 7.30am…but reached our final destination at 10+++pm!!!! almost equivalent to my previous flight from singapore to switzerland ar!!!

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迟到的生日礼物,但总好过没到。

答应 wind 妹妹的生日礼物终于完成了,费了好长的时间,断断续续做出来的…
哈哈,我在想下一次我还做得出这种 pattern 吗?

wind meimei with her bday present!!!
wind meimei with her bday present!

接下来,就是开始着手我的第三个project!!! 给我自己的…嘿嘿…
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Below are the analysis of life path number 3:

The Life Path 3 indicates that you entered this plane with a strong sense of creativity and with wonderful communication skills. Achievement for you most likely comes through engaging your ingenious expression. A truly gifted 3 possesses the most exceptional innovative skills, normally in the verbal realm, writing, speaking, acting, or similar endeavors. Here we are apt to find the entertainers of the world, bright, effervescent, sparkling people with very optimistic attitudes. The bright side of this path stresses harmony, beauty and pleasures; of sharing your inventive talents with the world. Capturing your capability in creative self-expression is the highest level of attainment for this life path.

Life is generally lived to the fullest, often without much worry about tomorrow. You are not very good at handling money because of a general lack of concern about it. You spend it when you have it and don´t when you don´t.

The secret meaning behind my name is :

Creative, versatile and imaginative you appreciate beauty in all forms. You have great inner strength and courage and have the ability to accept large responsibilities or challenging situations with patience and humility. Others admire these qualities and follow your lead. You are honest, discerning and self-disciplined and need to have a peaceful environment. Putting others before self your talents are used to make life better for everyone.

 明朝学者崔铣《六然训》:
  
  自处超然:
  一人独处,要有“宁静致远”的境地,扫事境之尘氛,忘心境之芥蒂,在昼闲人寂时,听鸟语悠扬,不觉耳根清净,于夜静天高日,看一片云光舒卷,顿另眼界俱空。
  
  处人蔼然:
  与人相处,平易近之,诚恳谦和,使人有亲近之感。既听正言,亦那逆语;有圣贤者之宏量,无庸民懦夫之狭胸。
  
  有事斩然:
  遇有事务,既深思熟虑,又须斩钉截铁,明白果断。
  
  无事澄然:
  无事可干时,可有“采菊东篱下,悠然见南山”之闲雅心情,无尘世纷杂之忧挂牵念。如此神情自旷,意念常进入豁人性灵之妙境,可谓有贤达的胸襟。
  
  得意淡然:
  老子曰:“淡兮其若海”。志得意满应淡如海,骄傲侮慢尤不可,仍须心谦身平,不狂妄,不像“子系中山狼,得志更猖狂“。而要心体莹然,不失人生之本,堂堂正正做人,踏踏实实做事。
  
  失意泰然:
  人生一世,往往失多得少。失意逆事之时,切忌自暴自弃,自我作践,自我绝望,而要自若泰然。常思不如我之人,则怨尤自消。心境通明,坦坦荡荡,无得失之烦心,有自乐之恬愉,何其泰然也。

  
  
  崔铣(1478~1541)明代学者。字子钟,又字仲凫,号后渠,又号洹野,世称后渠先生。安阳市人。弘治十八年(1505)进士,入翰林,任编修。因得罪大宦官刘瑾,于正德四年(1509)被外放为南京吏部验封司主事。翌年,刘瑾伏诛,召还北京翰林院史馆。正德十二年(1517),引疾告归。世宗即位后,于嘉靖元年(1522)被召入京。次年,擢升为南京国子监祭酒。三年,因议”大礼”冒犯了世宗,罢职返乡,潜心于研治学问。十八年,重被起用,任詹事府少詹事兼翰林院侍读学士。后又升任南京礼部右侍郎。不久,因病乞归。卒谥”文敏”。著有《洹词》和《彰德府志》。

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