August 2008


“attitude, to me, is more important than facts. it is more important than the past…than
circumstances, than failure, than success, than what other people think or say or do. it is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill…we cannot change our past…we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. we cannot change the inevitable. the only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude…
i am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how i react to it.”

– Charles Swindoll

Knowledge comes, but wisdom lingers
- Alfred lord Tennyson (1809-1892)

知识来了,但智慧却迟迟不前。
“知识有别于智慧。一个人累积了知识,未必就拥有智慧。
吸取生活经验,从中得益,非人人可以做到;能做到的人要有一定的智慧—有了知识而智慧迟迟不前,往往出于一个人未能吸取经验也。”

A Message by George Carlin

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things.

We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more informa tion, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete…

Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.

Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.

Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because t hat is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent.

Remember, to say, ‘I love you’ to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.

Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.

Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away…

真正的爱情是接受,接受以前的对方,现在的对方和将来的对方。

saw the above line somewhere, so copy and paste here…

been real busy this period…been doing quite a number of things…whether it’s my own stuff or my own full time work…been dealing with quite a lot of interpersonal relations…quite tiring, but interesting…it’s a good experiencing process…and oh yes, been doing some “part-time counselling”… haha…my new program suddenly requires me to apply the skills i learnt long time ago…hoho

many small matters happening…been coping each and every one of them…and sometimes “panicking” if i will be able to complete them…1 more exam and 1 more essay, yet to finish…and the plan and manual for the assessment, goodness, those are the “siongz” ones!
and more to come…

Jia you! Ah moon!